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Welcome to NMA’s Leadership Excellence – The Roadmap Newsletter
Thursday, May 3, 2007 – Vol. 9
Written and Published by Natalie R. Manor
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Table of Contents:
1.  A Note from Natalie Manor, CEO
2.  Delivering Difficult Information Successfully to Improve Sales Accountability
     Dave Liddell, COO
3.  Delivering Difficult Information and the Next Generation
     Natalie Hoffmann, Dir. of Operations
4.  Resources for Your Roadmap to Delivering Difficult Information Successfully 

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Your Roadmap for Delivering Difficult Information Successfully

1. A Note from Natalie Manor, CEO

You want to know the hardest, most difficult information you will ever have to deliver?  Well, in my opinion anyway.   

The hardest information to deliver is to someone who is really making an effort and their effort isn't making a difference.  They just don’t "get it" even with all the training, time spent with them, coaching, supporting and helping them to succeed.   

You have to deliver the news to them, “this is not working”.   

So this brings us to the place where we get to examine whether that person, who is not doing well even with help, is in the right position or even the right organization.   

I coach a senior female executive who has an administrative assistant that is not doing well.  They have worked together for 5 years so there is a deep and thriving relationship between the two of them that makes the admin’s inabilities to perform even harder to discuss and resolve.  The executive and I discussed why this employee is not doing well after all this time.  What we discovered is the following:
  • The admin’s responsibilities have increased 150% in the last two years
  • The executive has new responsibilities and now has 15 direct reports she didn't have two years ago
  • The focus of the department that the executive is leading has changed and the responsibilities have increased
  • There is no approval for overtime past the 40 hours of work for the admin – the admin doesn't have the ability to come in and catch up

What we concluded during our coaching sessions together is that NO ONE could perform all the duties now assigned to this admin.  It would take 2.2 people to effectively and efficiently perform the job functions of the current admin.   

My female executive was delighted with the results of our research.  Why, because the person tasked with all of the work was actually doing a great job, but on an impossible assignment.  There was no way that the admin was going to succeed by trying harder, doing more, working on her time management skills etc.  She was in fact doing the best job possible for her training and experience.  

The conclusions of the discussions and research was to help the female executive examine what is most important to accomplish within her organization and what are her best resources to get the work done.  It also allows the admin to not spend her entire day feeling as if she is failing which was severely affecting her confidence. 

As leaders you have an opportunity to examine what is really occurring during tough situations that appear to be failures on the surface.   If your people are having trouble getting their work done in a timely way, find out why.  Maybe their workload has significantly increased, the mission of the organization has changed, your responsibilities have increased so their responsibilities have increased also.  It could be that the perfectly competent person you hired for a job doesn't have the competencies or expertise to perform new duties that have quietly ended up on their desks.

Delivering difficult information successfully will never be easy, however, it can be done in a way that increases performance, supports productivity and takes care of your best people. 

Our next month theme is Teambuilding.  Watch for all the great information, tips, techniques and strategies for creating a superb team.  Also, watch the website for the NEW Teambuilding eBook with MP3.  The feedback on the content has been outstanding. 

My best,
Natalie

P.S.  Just wanted to say happy anniversary to Sandy Mayo our Director of Administration.  She has been with NMA for 3 years this week.  “Sandy, we could not and would not want to do this without you.  Thanks for all the love and support.” 

 
2.  Delivering Difficult Information Successfully to Improve Sales
Accountability
By Dave Liddell, COO

One of the best aspects of what I do is teaching sales leaders how to build and grow a sales organization that endures through hard times and thrives when their market is strong. It requires sales leaders to acquire a keen understanding of people and the discipline to adhere to a selling system.

I am often asked by Sales Vice Presidents, “Why is it so hard to keep many of my salespeople focused on the sales process? We provide plenty of training, but for some reason it does not seem to help. What are we doing wrong?” Of course, this is not always an easy answer, but assuming a good sales system is in place, the root cause can be narrowed down quickly. Very often the culprit is lack of accountability to performance results.

A good sales system consists of a well defined sales process, a CRM (customer relationship management) tool to track sales opportunities, product and sales training, sales coaching (usually by the sales manager but sometimes by external coaches), a compensation plan aligned with the desired behavior, and a performance management system. The most important component of the performance management system is the sales manager’s ability and willingness to hold salespeople accountable to specific results. More often than not, this requires delivering difficult information.

Drawing from my experiences with different sales organizations, the manager’s ‘ability’ is rarely the concern – it is more often the sales manager’s reluctance to confront the sub-standard performance of certain individuals. This is not necessarily an indicator of a poor performing manager, but rather a human reaction to avoiding inter-personal conflict or confrontation. Through my informal surveys with business leaders this is very common – but why?

The answer to this question is impacted by the sales manager’s leadership style and the company culture, however, two common factors are:

  1. Sales managers consider themselves friends of their employees first and then as their manager second.
  2. Performance management measures are inconsistent or non-existent in many organizations.

Let us consider one solution to this dilemma …..

First, be sure that sales goals and metrics have been clearly communicated and understood. The basis for delivering difficult information in a sales environment is to ensure that all sales producers have a clear understanding of their performance targets (quota) and the metrics that support reaching these targets. Examples of metrics can be the numbers of calls made, the number of quality conversations, and/or the number of sales meetings. Achieving a healthy ratio of metrics-to-sales is the formula for success.

Second, the sales manager needs to place the responsibility of poor performance directly on the shoulders of the sales person being evaluated. This requires a specific description of sales person’s actions and behavior, and a dialog detailing the consequences to the organization and the individual. Providing a description of an individual’s behavior is not the same as criticizing and is a much easier way of delivering (difficult) information. This helps minimize the manager’s reluctance and positions the dialog for a commitment from the sales person for improved performance.

Let me know how this works for you in your organization. Send me an email at dave@nataliemanor.com.

3.  Delivering Difficult Information and the Next Generation
By Natalie Hoffmann, Dir. of Operations
 
No emerging leader ever wants to have difficult information delivered to them.  Its already tough enough being younger than everyone else who are the apparent decision makers and to have them say:
  • That’s not right
  • You need to add this
  • The timing on that was not good
  • Maybe you need more training in this 

These are the types of the comments that feel like insults to us because we already feel as if we have several strikes against us for being the age we are and living in the time we are living in.  In order for you to understand what I mean by this…insults… just think about the last conversation to where you felt as thought you were undervalued or dismissed.  For me when I am in this situation I feel frustrated and not very effective. 

Now that I have made the commitment to work on my leadership and communication skills I have found several of these judgments and feelings I have had in the past about comments people have made to me are unfounded.  I realize now that my superiors and even my peers who have commented on my training, timing and core skills are really just trying to help me grow as a leader rather than trying to insult me. 

I also have a choice of how I feel when I receive information.  I can receive information by thinking that what I am hearing is going to be helpful or not.  When I decide – ahead of time – that the information is going to be helpful, it is.  When I think that it is going to not be a good situation, I am right, it is not. 

In order for me to have grown as a leader and a better listener, I’ve needed to find out what I value around wanting to be an extraordinary leader.  I have needed to spend some time with me to determine my goals and aspirations.  It is an interesting process and also helpful.  Finding out that my passions are:
  • Contributing
  • Communicating in a superb way
  • Growing people
  • Being a life long learner 

These have helped me to know that the information I get from “them” is really an answer to what I value.   

Getting out of my own way has gotten me two big promotions in the last two years, some nice money, a company car and respect from my co-workers who are ALL older than me.

Now, when someone delivers information (difficult or otherwise) to me, I listen with what I value.  What is really astounding is that the information that I now receive makes sense and the people who deliver the information are less “duh”.  Sounds like I am growing up. 

If you have feedback about your own emerging and growing as a leader in our next generation, please feel free to email me at Natalie.Hoffmann@NatalieManor.com.

4.  Resources for Your Roadmap to Delivering Difficult Information
Successfully 
 
Top 10 Coaching Questions for "Delivering Difficult Information Successfully" 
Here are some great communication coaching questions to help deliver difficult information more easily and successfully.  We often find that people like to print them out and post them in your offices where they can see them and refer to them often.  Feel free to pass them onto your peers and colleagues.

Download your copy here: http://www.nataliemanor.com/downloads/DDISTop10CoachingQuestions.pdf

Article - "Delivering Difficult Information Successfully"
Here is an article I wrote on “Delivering Difficult information Successfully". It can be found by using this link: http://www.nataliemanor.com/articles/difficultinfo.html.  It has some great content that you can use yourself or share with your team or organization.  
 
CD/MP3 - “Delivering Difficult Information Successfully"
After 20+ years of helping leaders just like you with delivering difficult information through coaching and training we decided to take all of our content and record it. 

Now you can take NMA’s tips and techniques around communication with you anywhere anytime.  For the last few newsletters our theme has been around being able to deliver difficult information easily and successfully.  We would like to offer you, our faithful subscriber, our “Delivering Difficult Information Successfully" CD at a special discount.

With your special coupon code offer NMA’s “Delivering Difficult Information Successfully" CD is now just $9.97 that is a 50% savings off of the regular price of $19.97

Go to http://www.NatalieManor.com/shop and click on “Delivering Difficult Information Successfully".  Once you login into the NMA Shop type this coupon code right below your credit card information. DDIS050307.

Could you use some support in your performance management and leadership competencies?  The NMA Team and I would be delighted to be a resource for you in building and navigating your Roadmap to Leadership Excellence in your organization.  Give us a call at 800-666-2230 or email us at Success@NatalieManor.com. We’d love to be a resource for you and your organization.

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