www.NatalieManor.com                                                         Success@The-Roadmap.com
 
Welcome to Your Roadmap to Extraordinary Success
Friday, May 16, 2008 – Vol. 36
Written and Published by Natalie R. Manor
Visit our website at: http://www.NatalieManor.com 
 
In this Issue:
Note from Natalie:  Are You Getting Ready "To Be", Or Are You "Being"?
Feature Article: You Are Your Own Best "Success" Expert
Natalie's New Book: "Roadmap to Success" Co-Authored with
                                        Ken Blanchard and Stephen Covey
(Thanks for sharing us with your colleagues and friends!)

*******************************************************************************************
Note from Natalie:
Are You Getting Ready "To Be", Or Are You "Being"?

My Mother’s Day could not have been better.  I got to spend the day with lots of time planting flowers, in sticky dirt, with intermittent rain showers and my beloved eldest daughter.  The wind blew so hard a couple of times, I did not know whether I should be moving down into my basement.  It was nice to have a basement to run to in case I had to. 

My point in bringing up Mother’s Day is that it went by so quickly.  There were 3 weeks of ads of “stuff” you could buy me (a mother) and then it was the day.  The day before had so much anticipation for so many people preparing for their Mother’s own day – or thinking about their mom – and then it was Monday.   

The analogy for me is very important for my success practices.  Am I spending time getting ready being successful and powerful, or am I being successful and powerful now?  It’s a good question.  Someone very bright said that a successful life is not a destination, but the whole journey. 

The article this week is about your daily habits and practices around “being” so that you can be successful today…powerful today…influential today.  As you practice these skills they accumulate.  Soon you are loaded with workable, finely tuned and easily demonstrated success skills. 

Sweet greetings to each one of you. 

 
My love and blessings,
Natalie

Natalie R. Manor. CEO
The Roadmap Team
Success@The-Roadmap.com 
 
*******************************************************************************************
 
Feature Article: You Are Your Own Best "Success" Expert

Each of us has a title, Mom, executive, teacher, brother, leader.  And with each of these titles, comes expectations of what we should know and how we should be acting if we are “really good at it” …the title we have been given.  And so many of us have multiple titles:   

  • Mom, business women, community activist, churchgoer, gardener

  • Brother, helper of younger siblings, college professor, donates time to needy, golfer and husband

  • Teacher, parent, volunteer, rock climber, deep caring for kids, second job as retail manager

The combinations are endless and the expectations that we have of each other and ourselves in each one of these roles is daunting.  Everything we do, we must do well all of the time, each day of the week, for the whole of our lives. 

Success skills come from practice and modeling those that come before us.   

There are 2 million books about success and yet the most important success teachers are those that we mingle with in our chosen lives.  We either model their behavior or get very clear about the fact that their behavior is not the way we want to be. 

We get to the point in our life education that we KNOW what makes us successful.  This knowing comes from looking back at where we have been successful and seeing the steps we took to get to that success.  We truly know what we need to do each and every moment to be successful. 

Because we are our “best expert” of what is most important and what we consider successful for our lives, I want to suggest that you spend some time with that expert.  She/he is the keeper of your flame, the repository of your talents and the storage unit of your strengths.  I think it is time for you to spend some TIME with you. 

Here are some suggestions that might prove to be good places to start to spend time with the brightest resource in your world, YOU. 

  • Find 10 minutes to a half hour every other day to be still and be quiet – some call that meditation.

  • Write down your thoughts from the day right before you go in and brush your teeth – Thomas Jefferson said that if we would review our day each and everyday we would find more time and retain the best of what the day brought to take to our next day.

  • Read stuff…novels, non-fiction, self development, history, science fiction – just read.  The pleasure it brings is long lasting and it will keep your brain supple and engaged for your imagination and creativity.

  • Wander, walk, mosey, move  - not just exercise – take a nice long mosey through your building, neighborhood, city block and see what is happening around you and see who you are in that walk.

  • Play in some water.  It does not matter whether it is a long bath with Epsom salts or in a puddle.  Water is magic at any age.  In my humble opinion the best venue for water is a fast moving creek in the middle of nowhere just bubbling along.

I know as you add this kind of behavior to your life, you begin to appreciate the highly successful individual you are and you will begin to accumulate more ideas – in real time – of what is most important to you and your extraordinarily successful life. 

I am going to find a good Nora Roberts book and sit in my favorite chair and fill my imagination of what is possible in the land of romance. 

And what do you have in store for the successful and magnificent You?

© Copyright 2006 - 2008 Natalie Manor & Associates

Want To See More Articles Like This One?
Go to: http://www.NatalieManor.com/Articles
 
Want To Use This Article In Your Newsletter or Website? You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it: "Written by Natalie R. Manor, CEO, author, speaker and executive coach, creator of The Roadmap to Your Extraordinary Success series, The Roadmap, Natalie Manor & Associates is your ultimate resource for leadership and communication development success for managers, emerging leaders and executives to maximize your potential and increase your productivity.  Success@The-Roadmap.com, (800) 666-2230, http://www.NatalieManor.com

*******************************************************************************************

Natalie's New Book: "Roadmap to Success" Co-Authored with
                                    Ken Blanchard and Stephen Covey
 
Do you know how to create Business Success so you can gain Peace of Mind? Would you like to unlock the secrets to facing and overcoming any business challenge? In my new co-authored book “Roadmap To Successwith Ken Blanchard and Stephen Covey we will help you do just that.
Click here for your copy: http://www.The-Roadmap.com/downloads/RtoSBkDis.pdf 
(If you have trouble with this link copy and paste the above URL into your web browser)

I am so excited to be in the same book with these giants of business success model. Our book will help you:
  • Build confidence in all business situations and create high value relationships with clients and co-workers

  • Eliminate your procrastination tendencies that seem to creep in so often

  • Identify your strengths so can explode your creativity and implement your best ideas

  • Align with proven success formulas that have worked again and again

  • Guidance for your personal self to build confidence and create the impact and influence you deserve

  • Learn the only communication tips, techniques and strategies you will ever need to effective

  • Discover the methods to unlocking practically any business or personal challenge your are currently facing

Reserve your copy of “Roadmap To Success” today. I have also added discounts for volume orders. This book makes a great gift so put your list together of those you care about: friends; co-workers, bosses; clients; church community; college or high school leaders teams. Everyone deserves a personal copy of great ideas, tips, strategies and techniques for creating their “Roadmap To Success”.

We are only taking telephone or email orders right now. Email me at Success@The-Roadmap.com or give me a call at 800-666-2230. Don’t miss the deadline for your discount and life changing roadmap to success.


*******************************************************************************************
 
About The Roadmap
 
Could you use some support in your performance management and leadership competencies?  The-Roadmap Team and I would be delighted to be a resource for you in building and navigating your Roadmap to Extraordinary Success in your organization.  Give us a call at 800-666-2230 or email us at Success@The-Roadmap.com. We’d love to be a resource for you and your organization.

NMA’s Roadmap to Extraordinary Success Email Newsletter is sent only to those who have requested it.  We value your privacy and never share our mailing list with anyone. To Subscribe, please visit our website at: http://www.NatalieManor.com/email/.  To Cancel your subscription, use the links at the bottom. Do NOT "reply" to this email!

*******************************************************************************************
 
The-Roadmap Team
NMA, Natalie Manor & Associates
 
NMA, Natalie Manor & Associates is an organization of consultants, corporate trainers and executive coaching professionals who provide measurable results for our clients in the areas of Leadership, Communication, Strategic Planning and Cultural Development.  To inquire about NMA’s executive coaching, speaking, customized training, facilitations and seminars for your group or organization, or to schedule an initial consultation, contact us at: Success@The-Roadmap.com

© Copyright 2008, all rights reserved.
U.S. Library of Congress ISSN: 1529-059X
You may copy, forward or distribute NMA’s Roadmap to Extraordinary Success Email Newsletter if this copyright notice and full information for contacting NMA, Natalie Manor & Associates are included. Contact us at:  http://www.NatalieManor.com/contact.html  or send an email to Success@The-Roadmap.com

A GIFT TO A FRIEND!
Please forward this copy to your friends and colleagues!  That's how we grow! We appreciate your sharing your copy of NMA’s Roadmap to Extraordinary Success Email Newsletter with friends, family and associates. Thank you!

To SUBSCRIBE please visit our website at: http://www.NatalieManor.com/email/

To update your contact information: Update  

Published by:
NMA, Natalie Manor & Associates