Your
Best Holiday Ever
By: Natalie R.
Manor, CEO
What was your best holiday
ever? Where were you? Who were you with? How
did it feel?
Isn’t it great that your
imagination will allow you to just go back there and
feel it and smell it and know how wonderful it all seemed?
You know what? You still
have that holiday in you and it is very real. However,
is it the holiday you want to create for yourself this
season? Is it time to let go of the memory and create
a new best holiday memory for you and yours?
Your best holiday memory
contains the components you need and want for creating
2009 as your best holiday ever, right here and right
now. We just need to look at this memory and see what
you’d like to replicate for yourself this holiday season.
In my very best holiday
memory, the following was present:
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People I love
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Food that was easy
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Stories from family and people
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Anticipation and joy of what was
coming
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Secretive planning so no one would
find out what was coming as a surprise
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Hearing from people who I rarely
heard from
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Spiritual support with church, prayers,
books, stories
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Solitary time with just me
What are the details of
your best holiday memory? Do you know how to replicate
those details for yourself this holiday season?
I wish you new memories.
I wish you new love of the holidays, which is a time
of revisiting the idea of love, giving, sharing, and
remembering.
Your memories deserve a
new venue and your life deserves new memories however
unique they may be.
Some guidance in creating
new memories might include thinking through the following
ideas:
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What do you love to do now? Do some
of it this holiday season.
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How much money is in your budget?
Stay within the budget and spend what you have with
no guilt.
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Where do you want to spend your
holidays? Go there…whether it’s a physical trip
by car or plane or in your imagination with a great
book or movie.
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Get your calendar out and mark in
it time for just you. Get to know that terrific
person inside you a bit better this holiday season.
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If you want to eat bologna for holiday
supper, do it. Take a picture and send it to your
friends. They will laugh and say, “Yea, that is
(your name)” because they already know you are a
bologna kind of person.
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Volunteer your time and energy.
I’ll tell you one sobering task is sorting, cleaning
and folding donated clothes at the different non-profits.
It is a huge task and you get to meet the most fascinating
people who are also volunteering their time.
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Do some good food for you. Buy that
apple, banana, or orange and savor it like you did
as a kid. They are delicious foods who rarely get
any credit for being there for us. Each one is at
the store and farmer markets right now waiting for
you. The red delicious apples are fabulous right
now. Take these tasty foods and slice them up. You
can then put them at your desk as a morning or afternoon
snack. Yummmmmmm!
NMA clients and colleagues
(yes…that’s you) are highly successful, results-driven
people who need reminding that they are also in control
of their food, time and thoughts. So think about taking
some time for you to reflect before this holiday season
cranks up to a fever pitch and you can’t get out of
the way of the wave of “here we go again.”
Do it this week. You are
allowed to have what you want, when you want it and
how you want it. Stop complaining and just do it. Take
some time to think through what would please you to
create your best holiday ever.
© 2001-2009 Natalie Manor & Associates.
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